During the past
couple of years, I’ve experienced some life lessons disguised as close friendships. I have had to relearn that I am an extremely
sensitive individual despite what some may think given my outward persona. Relationships, especially my ultimate ones,
are my roots. Some folks say family
should be your anchor. I believe this is
true, but consider family to also include those to which you have a special
bond even though they are not related by either blood or marriage. I have called these people soul friends in
past posts. To be blunt, it just really sucks
when you lose a friend regardless of circumstances. It has been frustrating to those loved ones,
that I cannot let go of people or things over which I have no control. The “Serenity Prayer” has never been more
apt. That being said, my wife and
soulmate has told me that she understands that this is the way I was made and
that she just wants to help me through it.
Wow! Anchors aweigh, thank you
Lord, I have the best.
Despite having
worked hard, mostly through prayer, at not being hyper-focused on things I
can’t change, I may have unwittingly
substituted a renewed interest in politics and a fascination with social media. Prior to last year, I was on Facebook, yet
was rarely active. A job and location
change with fewer security requirements actually allow me to possess a cell
phone at all times, so I got a really big one that I could read without having
to squint. In addition to the move from
my last position, the aforementioned reference to my estranged relationships, have
provided me further incentive to become focused on other activities, and so it
is, said social media.
Enter, Danny, my
middle son, with a strike of unabashed enthusiasm for Ayn Rand and Rand
Paul. I am sure my fiscal conservatism
and Libertarian leanings had some influence on him, but his desire to become
more knowledgeable about capitalism and politics has become captivating. I am very happy that all of my kids have
chosen to be readers and sponges, seeking out new and old ideas alike. They have their Mother’s influence to thank
for their appetite, not only because of the great food she prepares, but also due
to her insatiable hunger for reading and collecting books. Danny has recently devoured Rand’s The Fountainhead and Atlas Shrugged as well as presidential
candidate Paul’s most recent book, Taking
a Stand. Although I do not accept
her presumption regarding altruism and am not a true disciple of objectivism,
Rand’s works may provide the best ever case for capitalism, and against
socialism. As for Paul, I am a proud
supporter, yet fear he doesn’t possess the charisma or the social agenda so
many conservative Americans think they want.
A prophetic verse
from Emerson Lake & Palmer’s
1973 Karn Evil 9, 1st
Impression describing a Carnival-like (KarnEvil), then future society comes
to mind.
“Not content with that,
With our Hands behind our Backs,
We’ll pull Jesus from a Hat,
Get into that, Get into that.”
“Welcome Back My Friends to the
Show that Never Ends,
We’re So Glad You Could Attend,
Come Inside, Come Inside.”
This was no
debate, but a question and answer session dominated by the leader in the polls
and worst qualified candidate, Donald Trump.
I will give him kudos for the one question he actually answered, that
being that he reserved the right to run as a 3rd party
candidate. He also gets points for not
using the god card. I guess he can
afford to be his own person even if that person is not one I want running the
country. Every single candidate besides
Trump and Rand Paul proverbially pulled Jesus from a Hat! It was one of the most egregious displays of
using God to further personal gain that I have ever witnessed. We are instructed in Matthew not to display
our faith through performance. I do
believe some of these guys are sincere, but terribly misguided in their approach. After the debate, a friend mentioned on
Facebook that he was definitely choosing a godly candidate like Ben
Carson. Huh? I left that alone, but wanted to share that
Rand Paul is a devout Presbyterian (not an oxymoron despite the grief we take),
yet took the high road, by not pulling Jesus from a hat.
Even though I am
a Christian, I believe strongly in separation of church and state. Christian values were important in the
establishment of this country as were many other cultures and philosophies. These values are still relevant to individual
leaders as well as the American consciousness, but I don’t think it matters if my
future president is a Christian. If you
don’t think God works through everyone, then you never paid attention in Sunday
School. A Muslim president may not be
tenable now, or ever, to the populous, yet pitting the two subject Faiths is
certainly not Christian nor do I believe it is healthy for the country.
I have many friends
scattered across the political spectrum.
If I chose them based on shared political views, I’d have few. I am a fiscal conservative and a social
moderate. From an economics point of
view, it cannot be refuted that bigger pie for everyone is better than trying
to reallocate a smaller one that will continue to get smaller if those who
invest capital are not incentivized. And
even though I have my own moral and religious beliefs, I don't prescribe that
these all be laws of the land. It is
really about how much liberty you are willing to cede for your cause. I'm primarily only interested in trading a bit
for my family's safety. I am therefore,
a classic liberal. That is, being
liberated from government.
Ben Franklin said that
“Those who surrender freedom for security will not have, nor do they
deserve, either one.” Following the debate, I had a
heated argument over the Patriot Act (oxymoron) with one of my best
friends. Senator Paul challenged Chris
Christie regarding administration of the Act, indicating that fewer innocent
citizens and more suspected terrorists should be targeted. Christie replied that you don’t know until
you sort them out. The audience got a
laugh, but Paul’s point was that legal methods such as search warrants should
be used. My friend thought Christie was
right. I did not as I scrambled to
remember the Franklin quote above. No
one wants another 9/11, but if you live scared and skirt the laws in place to
protect individual liberty, the terrorists win and the soul of freedom bleeds! I suppose they also win if our flesh bleeds. As individuals, we generally don’t care about
anything unless it affects us directly.
I’m betting that my friend would be really interested if they came for
his arsenal. As I finish this post after
the tragic events in Paris, my stance will be challenged more than ever. This is as it should be in a free society. I don’t have the answers, but only know what we
potentially stand to lose. Clearly,
these are confusing times.
The most
difficult issue for me to abide by given my conservative nature, and political aversion
to social law, is abortion. As much as I
support one’s right to make this choice, it is gut-wrenching to hear the
callousness with which a human life is considered. I believe that when one is faced with such a
situation, it should be treated as a moral and ethical dilemma. At the very least, some soul searching would
be in order, preferably some spiritual guidance. It might have gone without saying that I
don’t like paying for Planned Parenthood with my tax dollars.
I believe the
core difference in political ideology has to do with what one considers basic or
natural rights. I have found that what
some folks call rights are only based on their utopian views as shaped by
today's construct. Free healthcare and
education are cited as examples. Certainly
these things would be desirable, especially if they were actually free. They cannot be free, nor are they what I
consider inalienable rights. We have the
right to life and to pursue happiness.
Odd that many that are quick to tout higher ideals, forget the basic
right of life.
Has anyone ever
noticed that the term “Politically Correct” is also an oxymoron? We practically bend over backwards to keep
from offending folks because of their race, religion, sexual orientation,
etc. When it actually comes to politics,
however, the gloves come off. I have
never seen such proliferation of hate, ignorance and misinformation as on
Facebook, mostly aimed at those with different political views. Of course it is not limited to social media.
A few years ago, I
was asked to attend regular interfaith gatherings as a representative of my
church, I believe mostly, due to interactions I had had with an associate
pastor (not the one I accompanied to these meetings, btw). He believed I would be a good choice since I
seemed to be a “progressive” thinker, perhaps accepting of other religions and
cultures. I know I am a progressive
rocker, not sure about progressive thinker. Overall, it was a great experience. Everyone was very thoughtful and I learned a
great deal. Then it happened. It was maybe the 3rd or 4th
meeting that someone went on a political rant and starting bashing George
Bush. Many others joined in. What the hell? I sat quietly, not something at which I’m
particularly adept. While Bush was far
from a perfect president, I have the distinct impression that he was a sincere
public servant and a good leader, not something I can say about many. I was actually more bothered that someone felt
comfortable in that setting to say such things.
But, what really blew me away was the response I got when I recounted
this experience to the associate pastor. He told me that liberals tend to be more in
touch with their spirituality. In other
words, no one would expect that a dumbass conservative would be attending an interfaith
gathering. Holy Shit, so to speak. I was almost speechless, but managed to reply
that I thought he was being extremely shortsighted. As
usual, I thought of stronger words as I ruminated on the encounter. What an outlandish display of arrogance. I still admire this guy for his biblical knowledge,
but it just goes to show that few are immune to the phenomenon of perpetuating
misinformation and stereotypes.
I know we’ve all
experienced it, but it is true beyond all doubt that church is among the most
socially and politically charged venues.
Again, if I chose my church based on whether everyone agreed exactly
with me, I wouldn’t find one. In many
ways, it is preferable to congregate with those who share only the most
essential spiritual beliefs. Certainly,
my family and close friends have no qualms about giving me their opinion and I’d
have it no other way. That is how we grow
and learn. My hope is that I can,
likewise, be positively influential. My
entire family has grown and prospered as a result of our association and
fellowship at Trinity Presbyterian Church.
Indeed, my boys have all developed into incredible young men with
impeccable character, due in large part to their church experience. We all are, however, “still reforming.”
It was, in fact,
Danny’s interaction with his friends at TPC, which motivated him to learn more
about his faith and political ideals. When
he felt as though his views were being challenged by his friends, he turned to
literature, both of a religious and social/political nature. Although he confided in us, he did the
investigation on his own. Of the many
things that bothered him, the most offensive was that his friends considered
their view to be more Christian. In
other words, they believe that a socialistic government is more Christ-like
because it is about taking care of people less fortunate. Wait a minute. Did I not just describe
basically the same kind of biased interchange with my pastor friend? If you are being coerced via law, it is not
benevolence. In fact, Socialism is by nature
an authoritarian system. Then there is
that term Democratic Socialism (yet another oxymoron).
I suspect a wider
perspective will accrue to Danny and his friends as they strive to learn during
their college years and beyond. From my
perspective, a healthy dose of economic theory along with religion and
philosophy curricula wouldn’t hurt anyone.
In a world where
most people don’t really want the truth, but only constant reassurance of what
they believe is the truth, I want to reiterate how proud I am of my children
and how they have become critical thinkers. I give my dad much credit for playing the
Devil’s advocate, when as kids, my sister and I thought we had all the answers.
It is difficult at best, in this day and
age, to uncover the truth. Despite what
Bill O’Reilly advertises, a “No Spin Zone” does not exist. Thank goodness for the occasional segment
with Dennis “Miller Time” to cut to the chase, and through the “Fair and
Balanced” arrogance. Indeed, the sentiment
may be legitimately thought provoking, but even the meme presented above has
been spun to help prove my point. Even I can pull Jesus from a Hat.
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